Men's Day: What Zakir Khan Teaches Us About Being a Real Man

Men’s Day is a special day to think about what it means to be a man. Comedian Zakir Khan talks about this in a way that is honest and easy to understand. He says being a man is not just about being strong all the time. It is also about showing feelings and being real.

As a man myself, I know being a man is not easy. There is pressure to always be tough and to take care of others. Just like people say every day should be Women’s Day, I think every day should also celebrate men and their struggles.

Zakirbhai talks about something he calls "Raja Beta syndrome." It means when boys are loved and cared for, but then suddenly they are told to stop crying and be strong. This can make men feel lonely and sad inside. But Zakirbhai says men also have feelings and need places where they can talk about them.

For Zakirbhai, being a man means knowing when it is okay to cry and show emotions. He says men work silently like gears in a clock, always helping their families but sometimes forgetting to take care of themselves.

Men’s Day should be a time for men to take care of their mental health and rest. It should also be a time to appreciate close friendships between men, where they can trust and support each other.

Zakir Khan’s ideas help us understand men better. Men’s Day is not just a party, but a chance to show kindness and support to men. As Zakir says, true strength is being brave enough to be yourself and share your feelings.

Let’s remember this Men’s Day that every day should respect the hard work and feelings of both men and women.

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